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WOMEN OF DISTINCTION

AS SHE GIVES US AN EXCLUSIVE GLIMPSE BEHIND THE DOORS OF HER ART-FILLED NEW YORK HOME

EVELYN LAUDER

SPEAKS OF HER FAMOUS FAMILY FIRM, HER DRAMATIC LIFE AND HER TIRELESS CHARITY WORK

 by Gaetana Enders
 

 

 

 

 

  

 

 

 

Evelyn's marriage to Leonard Lauder 43 years ago was the start of a romantic and business partnership that has lasted to this day. She has also always got on famously with her mother-in-law: "Estee saw that I had energy and fire in me and that I was always willing to work," says Evelyn.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Whenever they run out of awards for the much-lauded Evelyn Lauder, they rack their brains and come up with a new one. And as the stylish, sparkling dynamo behind much of the success of the billion-dollar cosmetics empire founded by her mother-in-law Estee Lauder, Evelyn has deservedly bagged a mindboggling list of accolades for her savvy business sense.

But the sweet smell of success has never gone to the head of the woman who fled Nazi Austria as a child, lived through the London Blitz and came to America as a post-war immigrant. Indeed, of all her achievements, it is her charitable work, most notably her breast cancer campaigns that has brought her the greatest joy - along with another whole slew of awards, from an Honorary Doctorate and Woman Of The Year, to Fun Fearless Female and Woman Who Has Made A Difference.

Evelyn first joined her in-laws' thriving family business shortly after her marriage to Leonard Lauder. With notable flair, and drawing on her experience as a teacher, she soon revamped the staff training programmes. Today, as a company vice president, she still plays an active role in the firm's fortunes, and continues to use her famous nose to sniff out new fragrances.

She has a keen eye as well, and rarely travels without her camera. Her striking snaps have led to many critically-acclaimed one-woman shows, the proceeds of which invariably go straight into the war chest for her fight against cancer. Her artistic bent is also plain to see at her spectacular New York home, where she received HELLO! to talk about her work, her dramatic childhood, the secret of maintaining a happy 43-year marriage, and of course to offer some beauty tips. Beauty, after all, is something Evelyn knows all about. Both her own elegant appearance and the priceless art treasures that grace the walls are proof of that.

What inspired you to become a philanthropist and to do so much on behalf of the fight against breast cancer?

"I grew up seeing my parents give away food and money to help poor people. When I was a little girl, during the war, we made the effort to collect anything we could to help, and when I was a Girl Scout one of my jobs was to help children learn how to read. So I always did what I could to help others. Later, when Leonard and I were married and we had children, we noticed that the playgrounds in New York City, in Central Park especially, were not as safe or interesting as they should have been. Leonard and I decided to do something about it and we contributed three playgrounds to the park.

"So my metamorphosis into a philanthropist came gradually: I was invited to sit on the board of my children's school, and got still more involved in parks. After that, it was natural for me to get involved in health care. I went on the board at Memorial Sloan-Kettering Hospital and I was told that they were building a new Breast Cancer Center. So I raised about $18 million to help build the new centre and to endow it for research. Afterwards, we started The Breast Cancer Research Foundation, in order to collect the necessary funds so that investigators from all over the world would be able to do exciting work in treatment options and in genetics. I have raised $30 million since 1993."

Tell us the story behind the pink ribbons you give away and the lighting of public buildings.

"Our friend Teruka, from the public relations office is the one who had the idea of lighting monuments all over the world in pink in order to draw attention to breast cancer. The one thing that all women fear is breast cancer, because it reflects on our femininity. Most women are very reluctant to permit their breasts to be removed, and so it becomes an extremely emotion-packed subject for all of us.

"Today, most breast cancers, if they are found early, can be treated early and we can save our breasts. In order to give women more information, we thought that we would give away pink ribbons in 43 countries to remind women about how to do self-examination and to have a mammography every year. The result of this blitz of information is that in the United States, survival has gone up ten percent, because women are being diagnosed earlier."

Are there any goals left for you?

"I feel that I still have many more goals and projects that I need to work on. First of all, I'm determined to raise enough money to give researchers the opportunity to find a cure for cancer.

"Secondly, I want to write a family history for my children and grandchildren so that they know where their ancestors came from and who they were.

"I'm also still very involved in Estee Lauder, where I'm senior corporate vice president, and all the fragrance developments are my area. I continue to have a wonderful time doing that and as long as my nose holds up, I'm still going to be very closely involved in the creation of all the fragrances - which is a third of our business.~

Tell us something about the early years of your life.

"l was born in Vienna at the time that Hitler annexed Austria, so the stories of our escape were those that were told to me from the time I could remember. We escaped to England and we survived the Blitz there."

What recollections do you have of that time?

"When we were in London, we lived with an aunt. I didn't have a bedroom and I remember sleeping in a hallway, because everyone took in as many refugees as possible, so we shared. Alas, my mother was considered to be an enemy because she had Austrian citizenship and she was interned on the Isle of Man. I also had Austrian citizenship, but they let me stay with my father.

"While my mother was on the Isle of Man, my father was busy trying to secure papers so we could leave for America That was always my mother's dream. So I was put in a nursery school, and the trauma of being separated from my father when I was so little was terrible. I remember that I grabbed his leg, crying and choking. I became one of the naughtiest children in the nursery. I probably did it on purpose because I needed the warmth and love of an adult which, because of the circumstances, I couldn't get from my parents.

"I was very upset when I finally met my mother again, because I felt resentful that she had left me. Of course it wasn't her fault at all: she was very loving and I was an only child. And of course we bonded again."

What happened when you got to the United States?

"When we arrived, we really didn't have a lot of money left and it was hard for my parents. Then I remember when I was about seven, my mother told me that she might be pregnant. Well, I had a fit I was no longer going to be the queen! I have to tell you, I was terrible, self-centred and spoilt. I didn't know how to be with other children, so finally my parents sent me to camp and I learned how to behave. At school, I was a troublemaker, but I got good grades because I was smart and a good listener."

 

 

 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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When you fell in love with Leonard, do you think that you looked upon him as a father figure?

"I thought that he was the kindest man I had ever met. I always had hoped that I would meet someone who would remind me of my father, who was my ideal.

"My father was very brilliant and erudite. He was very kind and he had wonderful family values, and when I met my parents-in-law, Estee and Joe, I recognised that they shared the same values. My father thought my husband could be trusted to take good care of me, which was one of his concerns, and that he would give me a good life. My father met Leonard when he came to fetch me for our first date when I was 18. When I came home he said, 'I want you to know that that boy who took you out is really nice.' I replied, 'Well if you like him so much why don't you go out with him?!'

"Seriously though, I think that when two people marry, they also marry each other's families. And it's very important, because if it's not a good fit it can bring tensions later."

What do you think of feminism?

"I am a feminist, but I do it in a feminine way. When I came to America, women of middle class, or higher, didn't work. They were involved in the arts or helped as volunteers or stayed at home. In Europe it was different, and my mother was a well-known milliner and ran the store owned by my father. As a result, Leonard was able to relate to me because he saw qualities that were similar to his mother's. Estee and I have always been close since the time we met she saw that I had energy and fire in me, and that I was always willing to work. We always got along because we shared the same ambition to be successful."

What do you think is the secret behind a long marriage?

"Nowadays women make it difficult for men to stay married to them because they're self-centred and criticise their husbands, when what a man really needs is to keep his ego intact. Leonard and I are coming up to 43 years of marriage and I think that to stay together for a long time you should try to please your partner without giving up your personality. Each person should help the other to fulfill their ambitions, so that each of their dreams will come true. Leonard has always been encouraging, not only because he loves me but because he has never felt threatened. He knows who he is.

"Another thing to consider is that if I'd remained in teaching I would have been restricted by the school schedule - and my handsome husband would have been running off to Paris alone, meeting ail those pretty French girls!"

You have often been described as the queen of beauty. What advice can you give?

"Knowing how to age and not being afraid of aging is very healthy. I also think that one of the most important things about looking youthful is to have a modern haircut. The second thing is to follow a very good beauty routine to maintain the skin in as good a condition as possible by using good cleansers, good nourishing creams and good moisturisers. Make-up is the last thing to enhance your beauty, but it's very important because it builds up your self-confidence and gives you more courage to face the world. Of capital importance is to have a good diet and exercise a lot, because even if one is overweight one can maintain good cardiovascular fitness, which is wonderful for your general health."

You have a beautiful art collection: who collects? You or Leonard?

'We really do it together, but Leonard is the one who does the looking and he's the one who is much more erudite about what we are looking for. But the final decision is with both of us."

You're the loving parents of two children. How do you think we should go about bringing up a family?

"I very strongly believe that parents have to be very disciplined with their children and very loving at the same time. Having had a background in child psychology, and having been a teacher, I know that children love structure and they thrive on love and affection. There are rules one has to obey, and I'm a believer that parents have to be the teachers. It's our job to teach children good behaviour. Schools can't do that. Also, we must enrich their lives with culture and teach them whatever religion we have. And most of all, we must teach them our values."


INTERVIEW & COORDINATION: GAETANA ENDERS

PHOTOS: JESUS CARRERO


Reprinted on the Internet with permission from

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